CONFLICT OF EMOTIONS (PART1)
Before I forget, I want to use this medium to say thanks to all my precious readers, thank you for visiting my blog , for all your comments and encouraging words, I must say they are really flattering…..
Back to the fateful rainy day, I got two calls from different trial versions, one happened to be a trial version I almost downloaded the full version but I later realized the game has been corrupted with virus. The calls gave me this unruly feeling which aroused different questions in my head. Questions like “y am I single? What’s the purpose am suppose to achieve from singlehood? What lesson do I need to learn from singlehood before moving to the next level?
As a single lady I tend to have conflict of emotions which is a result of having so many options you like, as in many games you like but none seems forthcoming or you just do not see yourself downloading a full version of that game, or the game is just do corrupt, it will destabilize your system when or if you download it. With all this going on in my head and my emotions scattered all over, you get something called CONFLICT OF EMOTIONS.
Why am I single? It all started when I broke off my last relationship, I wanted to take my time, clear my head and enjoy singlehood a little (because I've never been single for long) but in the process of taking my time, I got carried away with the freedom and fun that comes with it, u know that break free feeling you get after been in a shocking relationship? You have nobody you are accountable to and no one accountable to u. The freedom was so much I got stucked and carried away but there’s this ish I started feeling after a long while it’s called SINGLEHOOD SYNDROME…..
What is Singlehood Syndrome? It’s a state of mind or an invisible box you put or get locked in unconsciously and can’t break free. Singlehood syndrome puts you in a state of deep loneliness, the good thing is that it doesn’t last for long; the least is a whole day. It all depends on how you can shake out of it. I started having SS because everyone around me was either in love, engaged, married, pregnant, having kids and all and I'm like Temmy what’s up with your life now? Especially when you are in a terrible mood or had a bad day and you can’t just find that special person you want to pick a fight with, nag, complain to or just to talk to till you feel better, while all this ish is going on in your head you start having this depressed feelings like you are alone in this world and all that’s a state of SINGLEHOOD SYNDROME.
How do you get yourself out of this Singlehood Syndrome?
Talk yourself out of it
Think of interesting and favorite things you have done
Think of the fact that you decided to be single and it wasn’t like you didn’t have other options
Talk to your family and friends that make you happy
Think of the fact that because you are alive God still has a good reason for sparing you
Think of the fact that the best is yet to come
If you are single and find yourself in this state, it’s not abnormal, it’s just a phase and the earlier you snap out of it the better for you.
TO BE CONTINUED…………………………..
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