CONFLICT OF EMOTIONS (PART2)
WHAT'S THE PURPOSE OF BEING SINGLE?
Another cold
morning, am really not in a writing mood but I just feel I owe a lot of people
this, so no matter how much I don’t feel like writing, it mustn’t be about my
feelings right now, I have to consider my sweet readers and go out of my way to
please them.
My last write up was about CONFLICT OF
EMOTIONS, if you have not read it yet, I will urge you to take out time to read
it because, this is a continuation of it and to get a good glimpse of it, read
trial & full version, it will give you a better understanding of it all.
Back to my cold morning, am so cold at work, I
needed coffee to come to my rescue but I can’t take coffee right now ): , been
having this crazy menstrual pain that’s giving me cramps and serious backache
and when I take coffee, I like it real creamy and sugary *sigh*
This write up is about “The purpose am supposed
to achieve from singlehood” uhmmmmmmmmn…… A lot of young single male/female are
single for different reasons, some want to have fun, some just want a timeout,
some emotionally unstable while some are really damaged. But am sure most don’t
know there’s a purpose they are supposed to achieve from singlehood.
What’s the
purpose am suppose to achieve from singlehood? This question varies and it
depends on personality, situation or circumstance. As for me have been single
for a longtime now but I didn’t even realize the purpose until recently, I found
out that am emotionally unstable, have got a scattered emotion, I like you
today and tomorrow I don’t anymore, am crazy and into you this minute and the
next minutes you irritating me like shit. Funny right? Yeah it’s funny to me as well; I realize that
I need to work on all this shit before getting out of singlehood. Been single
helped me manage my emotions, have got a lot of it that sometimes I feel one
person won’t be able to handle it without taking advantage of it or getting
into the person’s head.
Are you single and you’re tired of it? Do you
want to breakout of singlehood syndrome? Do you just want to feel loved so much
like every other person you see around you?
·
1st
Work on yourself
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2nd
Handle your emotional ish, make sure you are able and capable of handling being too emotional because, if you can’t handle it at this singlehood stage you won’t
be able to handle it when you finally download that full version, when you do
and the version malfunctions for just a little while, you will get your system
hurt and you won’t be able to handle the mess. It will keep happening until you
learn to put a balance to it.
·
3rd
Don’t go out of singlehood for the wrong reasons because if you do, it’s like
you are going on a journey without destination. Singlehood syndrome seems like
a good reason to opt out of singlehood but trust me, it’s not enough reason and
been in a relationship don’t cure singlehood syndrome, it might suppress it for
a while but when you are alone and you are in that relationship for too much of
wrong reasons, you are going to keep having single syndrome, so don’t get it
twisted and mixed up
Finally, don’t
be out of singlehood if you are not sure or convicted in your heart that you
are ready to take the next step. You have to learn to be comfortable and happy
been alone, don’t let your happiness be based on a person, the truth is they are
human and imperfect so they will hurt you, make mistakes and make it look as if
they just want to mess with your head but the point is, are you ready and
prepared for all this? Are you a better person and happy alone? If not work on
yourself, before putting an addition because, by then you have to start thinking
for two….
P.S Be in
love with yourself first before loving another, that’s the only way you can
sustain a relationship and being in love with yourself is not been selfish or self-centered.
It’s about giving what you have and if you don’t have it you can’t possibly
give it.
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