MY CELEB BESTIE.....


This is one of my closest writings, just thought to share it..... I hope you all enjoy it!!

25th of October 2011 at 12:13pm........ Am back to writing because it's just a way of expressing my true feelings.....
    Yesterday i decided to take a break from all this rumcus happening at my cousins house and go chill with this my new bestie. it was just a coincident that i needed a break from the house and i got an I.V. to come visit, i had 2nd thoughts even had 3rd and 4th thoughts about it but i decided to go reason unknown.....
    I am glad i left because it was a new air entirely even though my cousin couldn't really understand why i decided to go stay with a stranger for a while but my little cousin did any ways. Back to my present location....at my bestie's house trying break free from the shocking air at my cousins
    About my so called bestie *smiles*, he's cool, nice, naughty, makes great and mad beats, can really be mischievous at times and always tries to be sweet..... lol. 
      Is it not crazy when your bestie is heart broken (an opposite sex) and you are single and all???  am trying to help him through the heartbreak but am guessing am going to end up been a rebound in a way. He thinks he likes me, so he says and want to impress me to like him which i think he's just trying to make an effort, the most craziest is been in the same bed with him............. jezzzzz, me can keep my cool but it's kind of hard for him but really i cant blame him as well because to almost every guy have met one thing they keep calling me is the word 'SEXY'. am kind of getting tired of it because to me it's just like am a sex symbol and they possibly cant see past that.
    One of the reasons why am careful and choosy, not that i don't like been called SEXY, because it's really flattering i must say and makes me blush but who wouldn't blush at the word SEXY??? lolz. Am use to it now though!! *smile* I like been me but sometimes it'd tiring and really i cant b anybody else because am me and am better at been me!!!!
     About/back to my bestie i like him as a bestie, anything more i don't know for now because really have got a lot in my head and it's just best been my bestie and that's the only way to sustain a stable relationship with me. My heart is still heavy from all this mix feelings around me, i cant even think straight any more. It's like two years of been single and everything just keep getting complicated. 
     An attraction that wont turn into, i really meant a distraction that wont turn into an attraction. just to reconfirm by former emotional position, am still crushing on my crush but like i said last night it's taking so much of my energy and it's draining me so am just going to stop when i cant take it any more regardless of what my emotional status may be....... Time heals, with time i should be fine....... No more heartbreaks no matter how little it may be..... 
   Has for my bestie we still in talks and he still wants me but i don't think i would b able to handle the fame that comes with it and the pain of what the fame might cost!!!! (:

Comments

Anonymous said…
Hmmmmmm I like d part u said distraction turning into attraction.can dat happen & end up well?
11 June 2012 at 17:52
temmybalogun said…
@anonymous of cos in most cases it does endup well cos dat wasn't u guyz intention from the beginning... u gt?
12 June 2012 at 05:13
mamamia said…
@temmy this ĩŝ really cool don't knw u̶̲̥̅̊ got stuffs like this i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ u̶̲̥̅̊.put i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ more effort cos u̶̲̥̅̊ don't knw what tommorow holds.
12 June 2012 at 08:54
temmybalogun said…
@mamamia darling.... tanx much dearie. me sef didnt know i could come out of my closet writting... tanx 4 reading, keep visiting n tell a friend to tell a friend! muah
12 June 2012 at 09:54
Veekey said…
Ma'am,y alwyz fil sexy thou? Duuuuuuuh :p. Keyword-Distraction dt wanna turn to an attraction,think it well...itz in 2ways ooo.!! Easy does it,and y wld he show face jst suddenly to drag my bestie wt me? He shu b vry kiaful oooo,lol..else.!! Itz a gud 1 thou
12 June 2012 at 12:57
temmybalogun said…
@Veeky my love no 1 is stealing me away jooo!!! bur am sexy na...(: tanx 4 reading darly.... muah!
13 June 2012 at 07:03
Anonymous said…
Don't think is best 4 u 2 sleep in d same house or on d same bed with som1 u call ur best friend and is a guy,he might not hav d intention of asking u out and u might never hav d intetention of dating him but becos u guys see every day and not just seeing every day but sleeping 2 gether,u begin 2 hav feelings 4 him and such relationship doesn't last most times cos dis feeling never came untill u guys started sleeping in d same place
13 June 2012 at 09:26
enigma106 said…
Nice piece....

The fact that ur called "SEXY" doesn't always have to mean that the guy regards u as a 'sex symbol'.

Maybe, he's just appreciating u for what u are.

A broken hearted guy and a single chick on the same bed, this is not AfricaMagic. #DontDull

Enigma106
13 June 2012 at 13:38
temmybalogun said…
@anonymous i gt wat ure tryin 2 say but d point is d feelings hs been dere b4 we slpt on dsame bed n we onli slpt on dsame bed 4 lik 3daiz... Nuffin apened cos re mind wasnt set 4 it. Sinc lst yr we ve nt even slpt on dsame bed...
14 June 2012 at 05:27
temmybalogun said…
@enigma 106 i gt dat nt every 1 tinks dat way wen dey call me sexy but most cases dey do yh!!! plus that bed ish no b africa magic yh but my celeb bestie was a perfect gentleman.....(: tanx 4 readin.. dear readers if u wana read about sport or arsenal pls visit dis my friend's blog.. xoxo..
14 June 2012 at 05:31
Anonymous said…
Nice write up, not bad apart from the constant "shelling". But you sleep the same room with am, and the bobo no climb, oh boy............. #LockUp
14 June 2012 at 10:00
@cozin said…
Hmmmmmmm mama d mama u I can't blv u open up dis kin talk on blog do u tink dis is d best way of gettin a gud advise?anywaz wht I wil say 2 u is been single 4 2years is not a sickness my dear I tink is time 4 u 2 learn sumtin n work on urself just b calm der is a rite guy sumwere 4 u.focus on d rite tin stop lookin @ d wrong tinz in a guyz n plz leave ur bestie alone n look 4 beta person dt wil apperciate u ok.love u z
14 June 2012 at 14:59
temmybalogun said…
@cozin amen oohh!!! tanx 4 reading dear.... me self didnt believe i csn b dis open yh bur guess sumtyms we dont know wat we re capable of. as 4 my celeb bestie he's jus ma friend noting more.
14 June 2012 at 16:54
temmybalogun said…
@anonymous lmao d guy is a perfect gentleman n he respects me dat's one tin most guyz lack nw.... d typos is a result of me doin d review alone but am working on it. tanx much.
14 June 2012 at 17:01
Anonymous said…
U said d guy is a producer,u guys slept on d same bed and nt 4 1 night but 4 days.all is well,I believe u*hold laugh*
..............T-soul
15 June 2012 at 04:19
temmybalogun said…
@tsoul you think u knw who am talking about? plus not every guy would b like u now... if u ve nt tried it b4 better start nw. it's called self control.
15 June 2012 at 04:24
Anonymous said…
Hmmm...temitope yetunde Balogun u r sleepin in d same bed wiv a guy u call ur bestie.nd don't even get it wrong dere s no feelin dere u guys r jst lustin after each oda cos if he s ur best friend u wud neva look at him dat way cos it s like sayin u av feelings 4 ur brother...am nt sure u guys aren't friends wiv benefits cos girls don't really tell d truth about everything n I don't even xpect u 2 on d internet anyways...but trust me if u haven't really done anything wiv him den keep ur distance cos it wud nt work.d only reason u guys still av respect 4 each oda is cos u r friends trust me sex ruins a lot things like u start demandin more 4rm each oda which u neva used 2 do as friends...u don't av 2 be wiv everyone u like sum pple r jst better as bein friends if u really wanna keep dem forever...well it depends on hw much u guys really cherish ur friendship.nd plss I hope u r sure of dis ur so called bestie cos like a yoruba adage says "ere kini aja n ba ekun se" when u knw u r lustin after each oda wat r u doin sleepin in d same bed or u wanna say u guys haven't been stealin kisses...plss we need an original version of dis story.
15 June 2012 at 08:01
Anonymous said…
As flattering as it seems been called sexy,sometimes it could mean one does not have anything 2 offer apart from been called sexy.why not smart,focused,highly driven etc.maybe next time when one is called sexy not sexy n smart,sexy n focused etc.one should really think abt it.omokorede jimmy.
15 June 2012 at 10:39
temmybalogun said…
@anonymous pls do me 1 more favour pls put ur name.... i really cant stop laffing bcos ure gting dis whole tin wrong. 1st dis write up was done last year 2nd we had 2 sleep on dsame bed cos i went 2 his house 2 gt a brk from anoda environment, 3rd he cant look @ me as sis n i cant luk @ his as a bro cos we re nt, 4th i hve nt evn seen much of him since last year, 5th we re nt friends with benefit, 6th stealing kisses is diff 4rm makin out, 7th we re nt lusting plus do u lust after ur best friend? it's nt abnormal to b sexually attracted to a friend u guys just nid 2 set d boundary!!!! i hope uve a clearer vision nw.
15 June 2012 at 11:17
temmybalogun said…
@jimmy omokorede i get exactly wat u mean but it takes sum1 smart and intelligent to notice anoda per dat has dat same quality. plus i ve been called intelligent, smart, determined etc it's even written in ma profile sef, but some dumb guyz cant see beyond sexy so it's dere fault nt mie. tanx aniwaz.
15 June 2012 at 11:28
Anonymous said…
Hmmnnnn wat a good piece Spicy but u took a risk dat cud ve cost u and pls its time u stay away from the so called bestie.. Cnt help laffin @ people's comments here tho am sure I knw the producer guy cuz we talked abt him sumtime ago in the year ryt?
3 July 2012 at 20:11
Anonymous said…
A nyc piece u av got plus dnt mind d person dat sed u shelled tell wueva it s 2 write a piece en knw wot ts like.. Temitope Balogun hmmmn
19 December 2012 at 04:14
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